(Got this off a friend who got it off someone else... so it's being Re posted)
The Blame Game
It's tough to face, but the truth is, most men use the term crazy to describe an ex in order to cast ourselves as the victim rather than admit to being the villain in a past relationship. It's hard to find fault in our dating behavior because that might lead us to more troubling realizations about how we need to improve as people. It's a lot easier to reassign the guilt and start looking for the next love of our life.
And when we do find a keeper, the crazy ex-girlfriend is a fictional character that helps us get your complete allegiance. By claiming that women in our past have wronged us, we hope you'll want to make up for our heinous experiences by showing us how a great guy should be treated — preferably with mind-blowing sex.
LADIES...
If your man starts talking about his crazy ex, keep this in mind: Most women don't go nuts for no reason, and details tend to be blown out of proportion. When he says something like "She called me 20 times in one night," she really called only three times in a week when he vanished after saying "I love you."
To get the real story on his past loves, believe half of what you hear and all of what you see. Focus on how he treats you — specifically, whether he takes your needs and concerns seriously or shrugs them off. If it's the latter, you could end up being his next psycho ex.
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