It's harder than it looks.

While using the bathroom at the movie theatre last week, I looked in front of me and found this writing on the door, so I took a pic of it. Not sure if you can really read it, but this girl writes "If he hits you just once, leave. After that, you're asking for it." Ummm, whaaaat??? I went to school for Assaulted Women's and Children's Counselor, so i kinda have some perspective of what the crack some of these females think. A lot of them assume it's easy for women to walk out of an abusive relationship. They question why these women can't just up and leave. As if it's so easy!!! And I have questioned this at times for people that I love, but you really have to understand where they're coming from. It may be easy for some of you, but it doesn't come that easy for others. Everyone has their own reason whether it be a good enough one or not. Don't judge the life other women are living when it comes to sensitive situations like this. It really pisses me the hell off when females talk shit. You have no idea what half these women are going through, you have no idea the everyday abuse they put up with and why they do it. Unless you have experienced it first hand, why don't you take a seat and shut it! And perhaps, some of you may have experienced it, and it was probably not that hard for you to leave right?! But, everyone is different. Your scenario may not be the same as hers, your level of courage and strength may be different. Before you judge, reanalyze what the judgment is over.

Everyone has faced some sort of abuse in their lifetime, if you haven't, then you may still experience it. Not hoping you will... but it's something called the "hardships of life." As women, we're bound to experience it one way or another. It doesn't just have to be Physical abuse, it also ranges from Verbal, Emotional, Sexual... etc. So ladies, just put yourself in her shoes before you go ahead and judge her life and what she's incapable of doing. Just remember, it takes her more strength and courage to put up with that shit as well. The same amount it takes for you to leave, is the same amount it takes for her to stay.

Stay up women!

Sincerely,

Liberated Cass

Motown Philly!!!

The bf and I went to see Boyz II Men this past Friday. And may I add how amazing it was. First off, they still got itttt. There's only 3 of them now, but nonetheless those guys are legends and I'm glad I got an opportunity to hear them sing. That was the first time they ever came to do a concert in Toronto. Overall, it was a good night with good vibes. The music they played prior to the concert itself was wowzers as well. Shit from the 90s really makes me feel good. It takes me back to the good times of good music. Makes my soul feel oh so good =)

Our next few concerts are as planned: Aloe Blacc- June 5th.
John Legend x Sade- June 28th.
Tony! Toni! Tone! x Ginuwine x SWV- June 30th

=)

Down... South...

I was on bbm with my girl earlier and she was tellin' me about her new boyfriend. There was one specific topic she brought up that I'm surprised I haven't already talked about. Soooo... her bf went down on her the other day and brought up this whole thing about how going down "isn't his thing" but he's only doing it for her cause of how he feels for her. I guess he was tryna make her feel special of some sort by saying that.

JUST SO YOU KNOW...

Unless you're some kid in high school, that shit is the biggest lie, lol. When guys tell us that stuff, we don't actually believe y'all. You expect us to actually believe out of allll the relationships you've been in, I am the only person you went down on???? REALLYYY? Lol. So my girl and I were going back and forth about how whack that is. I mean just be straight with us. We're not under 19, we know how it goes in the bedroom. It's either you don't say "you know you're the first girl I'm going down on" or if you're open to talk about your previous sex life, be straight up about it. Just so you know.... 90% of dudes do it. They may all lie... but they do it!!! I know how guys like lying to each other about licking the clit, but that's b.s. There's a very small percentage of dudes who actually aren't into that stuff. If you're over 20, chances are you've tried lots of stuff already cause you'll try almost anything to please your girl.

So fellas... please don't assume we are naive enough to believe that stuff. You can say other things to make us feel special, lol. And just so you know... going down south ain't a crime. Grow the hell up!!!

On the other hand, there are some guys who are against it cause it totally isn't their thing. But like i said, a very small percentage. Girls talkkkk... so if you've done it, they've already told someone, lol. Therefore, when you lie, it looks stupid on your behalf.

Interesting Fact:

We have more American viewers then Canadian, lol. There's a different percentage from other countries but those are the highest. I was surprised to see the Americans leaping over more then half of my own Canadians. Nonetheless, appreciate the views and reads =)

SURPRIIISEEEE appearance

I know that Cass had her doubts about me posting before I leave on my month long getaway but....HAAAA I DID IT! lol

Haven't been a very active blogger lately, I'm not gonna say its cuz Im really busy as that would be a lie..lol. However I guess leaving on the trip I've been waiting on foreever warrants a post.

So here it is! Maybe when I get back I'll have some concrete blogging material..??

Special thanks to Cass P for holding down AOMP! :)

Remember your School High dances...

I remember jamming to these when I was at high school dances... a whileee ago, lol :/







... So many more but not gonna put alla them up. Memories def don't live like people do!!!

They always take you for granted...