It's harder than it looks.

While using the bathroom at the movie theatre last week, I looked in front of me and found this writing on the door, so I took a pic of it. Not sure if you can really read it, but this girl writes "If he hits you just once, leave. After that, you're asking for it." Ummm, whaaaat??? I went to school for Assaulted Women's and Children's Counselor, so i kinda have some perspective of what the crack some of these females think. A lot of them assume it's easy for women to walk out of an abusive relationship. They question why these women can't just up and leave. As if it's so easy!!! And I have questioned this at times for people that I love, but you really have to understand where they're coming from. It may be easy for some of you, but it doesn't come that easy for others. Everyone has their own reason whether it be a good enough one or not. Don't judge the life other women are living when it comes to sensitive situations like this. It really pisses me the hell off when females talk shit. You have no idea what half these women are going through, you have no idea the everyday abuse they put up with and why they do it. Unless you have experienced it first hand, why don't you take a seat and shut it! And perhaps, some of you may have experienced it, and it was probably not that hard for you to leave right?! But, everyone is different. Your scenario may not be the same as hers, your level of courage and strength may be different. Before you judge, reanalyze what the judgment is over.

Everyone has faced some sort of abuse in their lifetime, if you haven't, then you may still experience it. Not hoping you will... but it's something called the "hardships of life." As women, we're bound to experience it one way or another. It doesn't just have to be Physical abuse, it also ranges from Verbal, Emotional, Sexual... etc. So ladies, just put yourself in her shoes before you go ahead and judge her life and what she's incapable of doing. Just remember, it takes her more strength and courage to put up with that shit as well. The same amount it takes for you to leave, is the same amount it takes for her to stay.

Stay up women!

Sincerely,

Liberated Cass