Loss of a Lover.
You miss their warmth, their embrace, the intimacy, and the comfort of knowing that they're always there. But every day does get easier, and eventually you leave the memories behind. You move on and find somebody new who provides you with everything you had in that lover and more.
Loss of a Friend.
You miss the laughter and the jokes, the random phone calls and messages that brightened your day, the times you went out and the had the time of your lives, and the times you chilled out and did nothing at all. But you can always make new friends, there will always be somebody that enjoys your company just as much as you do theirs.
Loss of a Homie.
You miss them. A homie is someone you truly respect and value. Not for how they make you feel, not for what they can provide you or do for you, not for anything but who they are. A homie is family...they could do anything, say anything, be there every day or be gone for years, and it just doesn't matter because they have a permanent spot in your life... a spot that can never be replaced nor forgotten. The truth is, you never will lose a real homie, because these are rare people that will be around through the thick, and the ridiculously thin.
I thank God every day for the real homies in my life...for those that are with me every day, and for those that can't be. I couldn't have made it through the last 23 years of my life without my rocks, and they know exactly who they are.
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